Deepening in Love
February 10-17, 2018
Mar de Jade, Chacala, Mexico
assisted by Indrus Piche
Registration is by application only. Register online here.
As an advanced retreat, this program is oriented towards stable, highly committed couples, with excellent basic communication skills, experience in psycho-spiritual inner work (counseling, retreats, seminars, etc . . .), who are in a fundamentally good place with each other and are seeking enrichment.
Dear Potential Deepening in Love Participant:
Thanks for your interest in our advanced couple’s retreat, Deepening in Love. Following is a more in-depth description of what to expect during the retreat.
Our group is limited to a maximum of 15 couples, offering greater intimacy and attention than our public workshops. We will be assisted by Indrus Piche, our beloved and long-time associate, who brings an extensive background in Tantra (sacred sexuality).
We see Deepening in Love as an advanced retreat, and admission is by application only. The program is oriented towards stable, highly committed couples, with excellent basic communication skills, experience in psycho-spiritual inner work (counseling, retreats, seminars, etc . . .), who are in a fundamentally good place with each other and are seeking enrichment. Many participants have previously attended our Sharing the Path workshops, though this is not a prerequisite.
Every day there are 2 or 3 sessions, with ample time off to allow for beach, rest, lovemaking, excursions, and simply relaxed time to enjoy the beautiful surroundings and each other.
Our teaching and practices integrate the profoundly practical (how do two different human beings bridge their differences to skillfully partner and create a good and satisfying life) and the profoundly spiritual (to transcend together our limited, separate sense of self, experiencing an increasingly open and naturally joyous state of connection with love, each other and life).
Our sessions include:
- Advanced communication skills
- Shared practices of meditation, breath, and touch
- A relationship visioning process leading to the creation of new vows for the next cycle of your shared life
- Sacred sexuality
- Radical self-responsibility
- Opening to your partner as teacher and the gifts & lessons they bring
- Dance, music and play
- A recommitment ceremony where you exchange your new vows
Some of the sessions go deep, but always balanced with nourishing and fun activities, along with equally important time off to relax and be with each other. Although we always invite you to dine or go off alone with your beloved, past participants have often much enjoyed connecting with other couples on a path of conscious relationship. There have also been lively and meaningful exchanges about work, politics and social change. We warmly welcome same sex couples.
All our work happens in a very safe, skilled and supportive environment. Those of you who have worked with us before know that you will be treated with the utmost respect and caring, while also being lovingly challenged to break through to new possibilities, individually and as a couple.
Most of the work is done directly with your partner, although you may occasionally do an exercise with another participant of your choice. We meet in men’s and women’s circles at least once. Your privacy is respected and there is no enforced sharing or process within the group as a whole.
Mar de Jade is a lovely retreat center right on the ocean. The food is very good tasting and wholesome: seafood, chicken and vegetarian entrees with lots of fresh veggies and salads. The founder, Laura de Valle is a physician who has been deeply involved in local community service for over 20 years. She funnels much of her profits back into her medical and educational projects. There is a wonderful warm, family feeling to Mar de Jade, very conducive to our retreat.
Tuition is sliding scale from $1500-$2100 per couple. Room rates at Mar de Jade range from $250 – $300 per night, including meals. Upon acceptance to the retreat, please do reserve rooms early as Mar de Jade is heavily booked during February.
This year we are experimenting with a self-selected sliding scale to facilitate being able to offer lower rates to those who might otherwise not be able to attend.
Please choose your level of tuition.. All prices are per couple.
- $2100.00 (for those who can afford to pay extra to support those with less)
- $1800.00 (our target average fee)
- $1500.00 (for those who need a lower fee in order to attend)
“When we consider that this superbly-facilitated retreat in a gorgeous location was probably the equivalent of ten years of good therapy, it was actually very cost effective!”
-JP & MA, NYC
Note: some further tuition reductions may be available depending on the # of higher end tuition we receive. Feel free to inquire.
Do visit www.mardejade.com for further information.
Please feel free to let us know if you have any further questions.
If this retreat sounds right for the two of you, we look forward to hearing from you. The 2017 Retreat is full.
With love and blessings,
Judith and Robert